Outgrowing What Once Fit | S04.E20
One of the biggest questions I hear is whether unhealthy relationships always come from unresolved childhood wounds. While that can be true sometimes, Spirit reminds us that not every difficult relationship means something is “wrong” with us. Often, these connections appear simply because we’re evolving — and the relationship can’t evolve with us. Growth can naturally create misalignment, and that doesn’t require blame, fixing, or deep psychoanalysis. Sometimes the lesson is simply knowing when to say thank you and goodbye.
Another theme woven throughout this episode is the idea that life lessons don’t end — and that’s not a failure. Our souls are infinite, and growth is ongoing. We aren’t meant to “finish” healing or check off lessons like a to-do list. Instead, life is an unfolding curriculum that invites us to practice presence, compassion, boundaries, and self-love again and again, in deeper and more conscious ways.
I also speak directly to questions around marriage, parenting, codependency, and self-love. Healing yourself creates powerful ripples, but it doesn’t override another person’s free will. True alignment comes from staying rooted in your own truth, honoring your boundaries, and trusting that what’s meant to rise with you will — and what can’t may gently fall away.
Books mentioned:
Journey of Souls by Michael Newton
Destiny of Souls by Michael Newton