You’re Not Here to Fix Everyone | S04 E16

In this episode of Small Medium at Large, Rebecca answers listener questions about boundaries, over-functioning, and the deep exhaustion that comes from always being the helper. She speaks directly to empaths, Enneagram Nines, and anyone who struggles with guilt, people-pleasing, or the urge to fix and save others—especially family members and children. Rebecca explores why setting boundaries can feel destabilizing, how to stay grounded when others react strongly to your growth, and how to step out of over-responsibility without abandoning love. Through spirit-led guidance and practical tools, she reminds us that boundaries aren’t about pushing people away—they’re about coming back to ourselves and creating healthier, more honest connections.

Books mentioned in this episode:

What’s Your Heaven? by Rebecca Rosen

Boundary Boss by Terry Cole

Too Much by Terry Cole

Program mentioned:

9 Lives: The Spirit of The Enneagram